Part of the process... After my twin cut me off, one of the first things I discovered about Twin Flames was that surrender was an integral part of the process. From what I’d read, neither awakening nor reunion could take place without it, and it simply couldn’t be glossed over or ignored. To do so would be like trying to jump straight from A to C. The thing is, I didn’t want to skip it, I desperately wanted to surrender, but I also recoiled at the thought, because I was in so

Into my heart... Today I need to write about Xavier. I had no idea that I would be writing about him, until the words and the emotions literally exploded into my heart, demanding to be heard. Originally, I’d planned to write about twin flame telepathy, but that’s not important now. That can wait. Because my soul has something to say about someone who will always be very important to me. The truth is, that since my twin’s arrival, I have carelessly swept Xavier to one side. At

A love beyond love... Unconditional love holds no prisoners. It is love beyond love. There are no tests here; no prerequisites or demands to be met. It just is. It resides in a place beyond jealousy or possession, because there is nothing to grasp or hold onto when it is your own soul’s reflection that stands before you. There is nothing that can be lost when everything has been found. Fast asleep In some of my past relationships, I have been on the receiving end of a false k

An intricate plan... I am starting to sense my ego’s weary relief as it finally grasps that it is not responsible for controlling the universe, destiny, or any of the world at large. At a time in my life when so many things seem to be up in the air, my ego’s usual response would be to stress, worry, panic, scheme, and attempt to control things to its own desired outcome; the outcome that it believes to be the best result for it. Having always identified itself as something th

Honouring ourselves... I wrote recently about my recognition of alcohol having been another form of abusive relationship in my life. This revelation has led to me re-examining all areas of my life, because the Twin flame journey is not just about deserving the perfect love relationship, but also about deserving healthy and nurturing friendships, working relationships, and family relationships too. We can’t just respect ourselves in one area only; we have to honour ourselves i